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  • Feb 22, 2007, 06:30 PM
    bodyissues
    Am I abnormal?
    I am madly in love with my boyfriend, we have had 11 very happy months together and are ready for sex, I am a virgin he is not, is it normal for me to be worrying what he will think when he sees me naked for the first time? What happens if he doesn't like what he sees? I am even worried about the whole thing, but don't get me wrong I know it's the right time, I just have a lot going through my head to do with body image and lack of sexual experience? Please give me opinions! Thanks
  • Feb 22, 2007, 07:57 PM
    shygrneyzs
    It is normal to have those jitters. Normal. Completely normal. I would daresay you are borrowing worry that you need not have. I am aware of the self image concern, everyone has that. Your boyfriend loves you, why wouldn't he like what he sees?

    I will add a note of concern - this much stress about the first time - is it really time for the first time? If you have not talked to your boyfriend about your worries, please do. He can allay your fears and make sure you are more than comfortable.
  • Feb 23, 2007, 03:17 PM
    talaniman
    Talking to your boyfriend about your fears would be the proper thing to do as you may be worrying for nothing.
  • Feb 23, 2007, 03:54 PM
    Wildcat21
    I am quite sure he is very, very, very excited to see you naked!! Hell - he's waited 11 months!! He isn't waiting around for nothing!!

    Hell! I am excited!!

    Just go for and have fun... go slow - no rush.

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