Hi
I'm 28 years man, last few years I have been interest & attracted to bottom boys above 19 years old .
Actually I had try to have relations with a boy, and I'm keeping looking for a date with a boy through internet or even in reality.

On other face I'm attracted to girls as normal guy.
I'm really confuse what I have to do, shall I ignore my feeling to the boys "which i try but i failed " or keeping attract "relations" to girls & boys?

Please help

It sounds as if you've just discovered that you are bi-sexual--attracted to both sexes. I suggest you find a lifestyles therapist to help you over this surprising conclusion. You are certainly not alone, and you can find a way to life a fine life without turning away from your natural inclination. You don't say where you're from, but you might have some cultural issues to deal with. A counselor can help with that.

I'm from Saudi Arabia, its hard here to be as you want on any subject, but myself, other try to survive.

The problem is the boys here are a fried to go for a date, even they are not, they don't take it seriously because of the bad picture of the culture/ society here

Thanks Schoolmarm97

I find you're your question disturbing. Perhaps it is a culture issue, but you do not say interested in MEN and Women, like a man may do, but you say "boys and girls" which gives an impression that is is really younger and perhaps children that interest you more.

And you are correct in some cultures this is taboo and in some areas it is still illegal and can be put in jail for having homosexual sexx.

Take it easy Fr_Chuck,
English is not my mother tongue I try my best, I'm sorry if I had language mistakes.

Again I will be clear on my question, I'm attracted to men & women?
I do not interest or attracted to minor.


Best Regards,

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Originally Posted by nader11231

Hi
I'm 28 years man, last few years i have been interest & attracted to bottom boys above 19 years old .
actually i had try to have relations with a boy, and I'm keeping looking for a date with a boy through internet or even in reality.

on other face I'm attracted to girls as normal guy.
i'm really confuse what i have to do, shall i ignore my feeling to the boys "which i try but i failed " or keeping attract "relations" to girls & boys?

Please help

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Nader, feelings and attractions come and go. Lust is a deceiving emotion. Just because you feel these things, doesn't mean that's truly who you are as a person. You should focus more on what you seek in a mate - characteristics such as kindness, respect, etc.

Be aware that if you openly choose a male mate, you could do real harm to yourself and them.

Peace...

If you can afford a summer in a more permissive culture, I would suggest taking 3 months abroad, unless you have to work. Or even one month.