Hello, a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me, using the reason "I don't feel the same way I used too". And now only wants to be friends.

However I still love her and I feel that she still does too. We talk to each other every day, I can see that she has some "impulses" sometimes as if she wants to kiss me, but as soon I lean in she "runs" away and changes topic. Also she still sleeps with 2 teddy bears I gave her. The next day when we broke up I saw the teddy and I saw tear marks on it.

Also she is a person that had depression for a long time and has been taking anti-depression pills for quite a few years, though now her mom started to reduce until it stopped. (few months later the breakup happened).

I think the depression is hiding her feelings, however her mother doesn't believe it and she says that her daughter is not in a depression because she is getting good grades at school.

She didn't fall in love in another guy, she didn't get bored of me. I even talked with her today and she said, I'm feeling sad and I don't know why. I think she is sad because we broke up and her "heart" is the that always shows the real face, while she thinks she doesn't like me anymore.

It was just bang and she lost her feelings, even Sunday we still had sex and well we only have sex when we feel 100% OK with each other. We are not like "eh lets do it" we only do it because it's a way to show our feelings to each other. Then that next Wednesday is when it happened.

She is 16 years old, and I'm 18. I don't want to get over her because I love her too much and she was my first love, and because I know that she still feels something for me.

What should I do? Both of us still live with our parents.

Give her some space. When a girl tells you she doesn't feel the same anymore, treat it as a break up. Move on with your life and don't try to contact her because that stir's up bad feelings.

The problem is that she doesn't wan't space, she wants to be with me like every 2-3 days...

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Originally Posted by GalioPT

The problem is that she doesn't wan't space, she wants to be with me like every 2-3 days ...

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Im not exactly sure that I see the issue here. Are you not comfortable with seeing her every 2-3 days?

You say she wants to be your friend, if friendship is not what you want from her, you should lelt her know that you can't be her friend and if she ever changes her mind, she ll know where to find you.

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Originally Posted by none12345

Im not exactly sure that i see the issue here. Are you not comfortable with seeing her every 2-3 days?

You say she wants to be your friend, if friendship is not what you want from her, you should lelt her know that you can't be her friend and if she ever changes her mind, she ll know where to find you.

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Well I don't mind being with her nor vice-versa , though I will always love her.
We have kind of a Loop, 2 years ago I liked her she didn't we were still good friends (though I loved her and she knew it) then 2 years later we got together and now its pratically to stage 0.

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Originally Posted by GalioPT

Well I don't mind being with her nor vice-versa , though I will always love her.
We have kind of a Loop, 2 years ago I liked her she didn't we were still good friends (though I loved her and she knew it) then 2 years later we got together and now its pratically to stage 0.

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Its just that I'm trying to get her back D:

Sorry guy, she has changed the love thing to a part time friends with benefits as she weans herself off you and is ready to try life on her own, which won't be too long in happening.

Things have changed, she has changed, so don't blame it on anything else except she is growing up and is almost ready to do her thing without you. I suggest you prepare yourself.

It doesn't really matter why or how she broke up with you. It is the fact that she did so that is important. You need to accept her decision, stay busy, and start to move on.

Move on and find someone who wants to be with you. Been there done that, there is no friendship with this girl. So what are you going to be the shoulder she can cry on when them jerks she screws treats her like crap, or when she needs something and comes to you because she can't get it from no one else.