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  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:22 PM
    jojaaa
    Hymen intact
    I wonder if I could send a picture for my vagina to know whether its intact or not
    Just tell me how to set and the position to take an accurate image
    I never had sexual intercourse before
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:23 PM
    afaroo
    May I ask that How old are You?
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:26 PM
    J_9
    No, please don't send a picture of your vagina.

    Have you ever played sports? Used a tampon?
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:31 PM
    jojaaa
    Im 20
    I played football and vollyball
    Never used a tampon
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:37 PM
    jojaaa
    Im engagged and you don't have any idea how much sensitive this issue in arabian society.. it's a scandle to lose you virginity before marriage in my country it desearve death..
    I don't know if its proper to say that or not.. I masterbuated and I don't remmber if I insert a thing into my vagina.. please help
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:41 PM
    J_9
    jojaaa,

    You are a virgin until a penis is placed inside of your vagina. Hymens break for a number of reasons OTHER than sex. Horseback riding can break a vagina, sports can break a vagina.

    As long as you have never had sex you are still a virgin whether you have a hymen or not.
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:44 PM
    jojaaa
    J_9
    I do appreciate your replying but its all about hymen in my country.. if you could tell me the way of the test I could handle it.. I am a medical student I can do it
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:50 PM
    J_9
    You will have to see a doctor for that.
  • Apr 23, 2012, 11:52 PM
    jojaaa
    I can't go to a doctor its considered as scandle to check up virginity
    Is there any other way?!
  • Apr 24, 2012, 03:42 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jojaaa View Post
    I can't go to a doctor its considered as scandle to check up virginity
    is there any other way ?!!!

    Sorry, but no. We do understand different cultural mores, but the facts are are not about cultural and social mores but about biology and science. Virginity is defined as penile insertion. No penile insertion then virginity is intact.

    But it is a fact that hymens can break due to reasons other than penile insertion. It is also a fact that even if the hymen is intact it is not a given that the man can tell. Not all women will bleed upon the hymen breaking. So, your culture is asking the physical and cultural impossibility. The only way to tell if there is an intact hymen is by examination by an OB/Gyn.

    I'm sorry if this does not help you, but those are the facts.

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