Is it a phase he's having? Should I wait around
OK so my boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now and I just don't feel happy around him. He has been acting totally different but I don't know if its just a phase or if its permanent.
He does so many things that makes it seem that he just doesn't care. Like I've seen some conversations online between him and girls all over the world and he is flirting with them and telling them he misses them but when I tried talking to him about it he said that he wasn't flirting and gets angry and difensive just like he does when he's with me and I catch him stairing at other girls (not just checking them out full on stairing)
When he gets upset about anything he snaps on me or takes it out on me making sure I feel bad, and then like 5 minutes after acts happy and expects me to, and then gets angry when I cant.
He use to want to spend time with me but now he always says that he feels like ne never has time for anything else, we honestly hang out like once or twice a week, but because he thinks that giving me a ride to work is hanging out its different in his eyes, he spends all of his time on the computer and xbox that its myfault that he doesn't get time with his friends or to get his work done.
Sex, big problem there, we maybe have it once a week, and he keeps track of when we do because he doesn't want to do it too much, but when I want it and I try and be sexy he says no all the time, when he wasnts it and I don't he gets all bummy and upset and doesn't want to do anything, when we actually do he wants me to keep my shirt on and when I look at him he laughs totally killing the mood
I love him and he says he loves me but I don't think I really believe him
And I forgot to mention that he is now writing down what days we hang out to make sure we don't hang out too much or to little... I don't even know what to think of that like how are we suppose to live together.
And it took him 10 months to tell me he loves me and he laughed when he said it
