Well me and my girl has been dateing for almost 2 years now and I love sex but we have sex about 2 to 3 times a month and I feel so lonely when I try to come on to her she always makes up an excuse to turn me down and when I ask her why we don't have sex often she says because she doesn't want to get tired of me and frankly I think that's bull I sometimes think its me but I never had this problem before oh and by the way I'm a lesbian and my girl friend is a butch.. can someone tell me wats going on

Your sexual orientation doesn't matter. She simply isn't as interested in it as you are. Many couples will have a difference in desire. The key is to find a happy compromise. Are you showing your affection for each other in other ways besides sex? Are you intimate in ways that don't have to lead to sex?

If the two of you can't come to a compromise after discussing it again, then you will have to either get used to the frequency or consider that the relationship is not going to meet your needs and end it.

Were very happy in other areas we show a lot of affection towards each other that don't lead to sex I give what she wants I do what she wants and all I ask for is a lilttle more sex then we have

Then you will have to talk to her about it again and discuss reaching a compromise.