I'm bi and I have a boyfriend were all right and the relationship is great we kiss, hug, and talk but I'm a virgin now he says he wants to be my first should I have sex with him or wait kind of confused about the situation

How old are you ?

And normally my advice to any couple, if you don't KNOW it is right, then it is not time to do it yet, if you even have to ask, then you know it is not time

I'm 16 and I have known him for 3 years now and I'm very into him and we have done other thing together but this is a huge step and I'm the slow kind

How old is him? And I would say the same, if you are not sure, don't do it... better safe than sorry.

At 16 depending on where you live, sex with him may well be illegal.

We live in Georgia

Of course you wait, until YOU are ready, and the person you are with is ready,. to support kids. Sex is no game, and there are some life changing consequences for unwary, unprepared teen agers.

Every guy wants to be a virgins first. Love or not!