I am 24 years old been with the same guy for 5 years now. We used to have sex daily anymore it seems I cannot even get him aroused! I do not masterbate or anything. I do not feel comfortable wearing sexy clothes (because I'm not a skinny minny) sometimes we go 2 months without having sex but I give him head frequently! Neither of us are romantic or anything so we don't really do anything romantic. We have a 4 yr old son (not planned) and everyone says when u have kids unexpectidly the male becomes less sexually active! I have tried a lot of different things to get him aroused but nothing seems to work! I have been working on losing weight because I think that has to do with it, even though he says it don't! Help me please I don't know what to do anymore?

Stop giving him oral sex, that is satisfying him, so he most likely does not see your need. Have him give you oral first perhaps before you do him.

Next why not masterbate, that is your issue, most people do.

Sexy clothes, sorry heavy people are and can be sexy, men often like some clothes sexy to set a move.

Stop giving him oral sex, that is satisfying him, so he most likely does not see your need. Have him give you oral first perhaps before you do him.

Next why not masterbate, that is your issue, most people do.

Sexy clothes, sorry heavy people are and can be sexy, men often like some clothes sexy to set a move.

Ask him. You live together. You have a child together. You presumably have other problems and talk about them. Ask him.

And, yes, stop giving him oral sex. Maybe it's his preference for some reason or another.