So tonight when I came home from work, got settled in, and logged on to check my FB mail and whatnot. I was not really paying attention to who's page it was, I thought it was mine, but it was my partners. So I noticed that I didn't recognize these ppl's emails. I don't know anyone named Betty... but HE does. Its his ex-wife. The very woman he claims to not be speaking to. So I caught him lying to me about talking to her. Which is something that has happened in the past with different ex girlfriends. He is emotionally cheating, and I do not want to go through this experience again. If I bring it up, I'm afriad he will accuse me of snooping. What should I do?

You say you don't want to go through this again. Simple, you leave him and you won't experience it again.

You know... whenever I answer a question pertaining to love... I throw my emotional motto on the end. Love takes time. Your love has obivously had some time to wane and mature with your partner... and look what happened. He is emotionally cheating on you. Time has passed and you got your answer... I know that this is not the answer you want, but like none12345 said, sometimes you just need to know when to get out. I'm sorry.
Love takes time.

It not unhear of for some people to remain friends with their exes but if he is lying about it then he was hiding it. Personally, I don't like that hiding crap. Of course he is going to get mad if you bring this up and of course he is going accuse you of invading his privacy. I can't tell you the number of times I accidentally went on my husband fb page because he didn't logged out and then I realize it wasn't my fb page. And the same thing have happen to my husband going on my page when I didn't logged out.f
In the end, things happen for a reason. And some people don't believe in emotional cheating. Some think cheating is only cheating when it gets sexual. So if this is his ongoing behavior why do you keep putting yourself through this? It is oblivious open communication and trust is lacking andwithout these key elements a relationship won't work.

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Pack up and leave, or evict him. Not your fault he left his stuff open, so confront him. Does he have kids by his ex wife/ex girl friends?