I need some advice: I met this amazing guy but unfortunantly he lives halfway across the country. We planned an amazing weekend together had a blast and when I got home we talked every single day and planned our next trip to see each other... he told me he never felt about anyone else like he did about me etc etc...

Then out of nowhere (a week before he's supposed to come visit) he tells me he met someone and can't do a long distance thing with me but still cares very deeply about me and wants to keep our trip planned on. So now he's coming in tomorrow and I don't know what to expect... he called me last night and a few nights ago acting all sweet and telling me to make sure I slept tight and how excited he is to visit.

The thought of him with this girl is killing me and I understand he needs a companion who he can see more then once every other month... but if he still cares about me what do I do when he is here?

The guy is not worth any of your time he CLEARLY wants to have his and eat it too you deserve more than this guy who cannot be loyal to you. However if you feel deeply attached to him reciprocate and find a guy that lives closer to you. So he can understand that it's a two way street and you're not just going to wait for him to "come around". Hope I helped! Good luck! P.S: when he's there be a friend not a girlfriend i.e. don't kiss him

Dump the guy, he's playing games with you. Have some respect for yourself!

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