See I had sex for the first time two going on three fridays ago and I bled A LOT. No joke a lot. But I did it two more times after that (same man don't worry haha) and it was also around my period (still had it last week) but I'm still spotting from my first time and its almost three weeks later :( I don't know what to do. Keep in mind it was around the time of my period and it did come. Can anyone help me?

Also, each time was protected didn't "finish" in me or anything.

A Gerda (born in 94?)

Hey, nothing to worry about. It bleeds if the membrane has never been torn or broken already, which might have, in case of the girls, who play or dance too much, or ride cycle, etc, but not certainly and if it broke on the day you had debuted your sex life, nothing to worry about. After that it does not bleed. Your case is normal.

Of course since you had sex you have studied and do know that condoms are not 100 percent effective if that is the only protection you used. Also you know I am sure that withdraw is not effective since since there is sperm in all the early fluids.

So anytime you have sex there are chances of pregnancy.

Some women bleed just a few tiny spots while others gush as you did. Plus it was right before your period, so don't worry, even 3 weeks later, as long as it's not still gushing.

Not finishing inside you has about a 25 - 27% failure rate, because there is leakage of sperm whether either of you is aware of it or not. Time to go to the nearest clinic or Planned Parenthood for something better.

For me, if I have sex right before my period, for some reason, it seems that sex will jumpstart my period for me.

How old are you? Are you 18 as your screenname suggests?