My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. During the last year I have been battling depression because of job stress. During this time she picked up the slack and kept life moving. I love her and she says she loves me. When she broke up with me she didn't move out she moved into the spare bedroom. She says we can work to see if we can make it work. I don't know if her being down the hall is a good thing. I'm unsure what to do. I also don't need to hear how this is typical lesbian behavior.

She is sending you a message, shape up or she is out of there. If you want it to work, take steps to improve your situation.