Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a long time now and we both know we're ready do have sex. I'm a virgin can someone help and tell me how to pop her cherry without hurting her?

Thanks Your Answers Would be very much appreciated(:

Women don't have cherries, cherries grow on trees or are found in cans in the store. Women have hymens. And hers may or may not already be broken from tampons, or exercise or other things, including masturbation.

Normally sex the first time is going to hurt her,

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

women don't have cherries, cherries grow on trees or are found in cans in the store. Women have hymens. And hers may or may not already be broken from tampons, or exercise or other things, including masterbation.

Normally sex the first time is going to hurt her,

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Haha Thanks So basically what your saying is that it's going to hurt for the first time and Breaking her "Hymen" Is going to hurt?

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Originally Posted by ckimber09

Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a long time now and we both know we're ready do have sex. I'm a virgin can someone help and tell me how to pop her cherry without hurting her?

Thanks Your Answers Would be very much appreciated(:

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Its going to hurt her no matter what but make it special. Give her a rose, have candles around the room and make her comfortable enough so that she can say 'no' anytime. Also if you love her enough you would wait before taking something this special from her. Kids should no be having sex and then having kids themselves, its just wrong!!

What about pregnancy?

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Originally Posted by flowerchildfala

Its going to hurt her no matter what but make it special. Give her a rose, have candles around the room and make her comfortable enough so that she can say 'no' anytime. Also if you love her enough you would wait before taking something this special from her. Kids should no be having sex and then having kids themselves, its just wrong!!!

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I just turned 21. And I'll take that advice and make it "Special."

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Originally Posted by ckimber09

we both know we're ready do have sex.

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Are you both also ready to have a child? You do understand that no form of birth control is 100% effective?

No one should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are financially, physically and emotionally prepared to have a child.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

Are you both also ready to have a child? You do understand that no form of birth control is 100% effective?

No one should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are financially, physically and emotionally prepared to have a child.

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I'm financially, physically and emotionally prepared to have a child. I've told her that .