Okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months now and one day I had something to do quickly and there is these 2 girls that always flirt with my boyfriend and every time I go to do something I come back to them being right next to him and they always talk to me about him and they are always like oh I didn't know your boyfriend was so good at this and this and it's really annoying me and we went through a hole month when I couldn't trust him because of it and he has kept on telling me I don't like them they just always talk to me I promise we don't even do anything anymore but for some reason my heart is telling me not to trust him again and when he goes places I always end up asking him where did you go who did you go with who was there and I just don't know what to do at this rate I I've cried plenty of times and just don't know what to do about it

Hun has he given you a reason to not trust him? If he hasn't then you need to trust him. Tell him you trust him and try not to get jealous. If you keep accusing him of cheating then he will cheat. Have some trust in him.

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Originally Posted by flowerchildfala

hun has he given you a reason to not trust him? if he hasnt then you need to trust him. Tell him you trust him and try not to get jealous. If you keep accusing him of cheating then he will cheat. Have some trust in him.

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I agree. But if he has messed up, don't go thinking he still does. I know that I've made mistakes in my relationship. And when he told me that he trust me again, I know I would never again give him a reason not to. So just sit down and tell him that you don't like when he is with those women. And if its 'nothing', he should have no problem staying away from them, for you.
Hope I helped!

What has he done that makes you not trust him?
Girls can be catty and do things to get under other girls skin.
There is nothing wrong with talking to people. It's what we humans do.
Continuing to question and accuse him will send him running in the other direction.
Try being a little more self-confident and secure in yourself.

Discuss how you feel with him, he may ease off the flirting. Try not to make it demanding, or you'll become clingy. However you need to accept that men do have female friends. I'm sure you have some male friends that you feel no romantic link to. It's natural to feel a tad jealous in the beginning of a relationship, but don't let insecurity ruin things. Remember, the more you analyse it, the more you'll convince yourself something is going on, when nothing is.

x Dani

I mean no I guess not he told me once thAt he didn't like these girls and he doesn't even talk to them they talk to him but the thing also is that I never tell him he can't talk to girls but he tells me all the time that I'm not allowed to talk to guys and every time I do he freaks out on me and tells me " it ****ing makes me feel like ****" and I tell him I'm sorry and he is like your just saying that... Sorry is just another word to you and I want him to trust me like I'm not just going to stop talking to guys I have a guy best friend so it's really hard for me