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  • Apr 13, 2012, 08:28 PM
    Tyrusiscute
    I like this boy but it's my best friend's crush
    And I think the boy might like me to and I don't want to hurt my friend feelings and I'm not aloud to date and I'm 12
  • Apr 14, 2012, 02:05 PM
    EmberStudios
    Been there! It's quite normal to be attracted to people who your friends like- you probably share the same interests, if not tastes. And vice versa for him. It is just a question of is it worth it?
    For instance, how upset will your friend be? If you don't want to upset her it is probably best to decline any offer, if you aren't too sure how much you like him. As for not being allowed, your parents want what is best for you, and upsetting them usually leads to trouble.

    So to sum it up:

    I know it is difficult, but do the right thing and let it pass. Friendship and family last longer and are often stronger than crushes x
  • Apr 16, 2012, 07:45 PM
    Tyrusiscute
    Thank you ember studios but also my friend is not that nice to me and I really like this boy and I would take a bullet for him but thank you ,you helped me make the right choice I think
  • May 28, 2012, 08:49 PM
    amberlaraesmith
    Talk to your friend.. See if it's okay if you like him..
    The old saying is..
    Sisters before misters!
  • Jun 18, 2012, 09:31 AM
    laurenXx
    I know you are all saying 'sisters before misters' but trust me, its hard. My best friend has liked this boy for months and I have all of a sudden started to like him. I don't want to but I can't choose my feelings! He likes me too but we are too scared because neither of us want to hurt her, if he asks me out, I would say no, to make my mate happy but at the same time it will make me+him upset.

    ~ IS IT WORTH IT
  • Oct 22, 2012, 03:08 PM
    Rarity13
    Okay so i like this boy but my best friend has also liked him and like she flirts and i dont know if he really notices her flirting.Anyway she once asked him out and he turned her down but they are still friends and all.Now everyday he talks to me and like high-fives me and like talks about me but then says sorry and like says he didnt mean it.Also today in class he was like messing with my chair and like trying to make my seat stay by his and like trying to take my hand in his to "stab my hand" i guess.


    so here are some of my questions:
    1)Does he like me?
    2)Was he flirting with me
    3)Do you think i should do that to my friend?
  • Oct 22, 2012, 03:10 PM
    Rarity13
    p.s I love purple lol

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