I am going through a very bad divorcew from a man who just decided he couldn't take having a badly disabled wife, I have no one to help me to just get around. I have a divorce hearing pending, but in the mean time my husband has taken all moneys and vehicles and isn't helping me at all with anything and has left me destitute. My attorney has taken my divorce probono and my husband will have to pay for the divorce. I would like to see if anyone out there has any ideas of any groups or organizations that could help, I have been having to begg the food banks for food and cannot get a job due to my health. The welfare system keeps saying my husband has to help me and refused to help me and my family isn't able to either. I have filed for grants and still waiting but have had no luck yet. Please if anyone has any information about any assistance please post it here or to my email address at (removed)

Your disablement my very well be your savior. You don't say where you are located, but if you have MS or something similar, the Ontario government, as well as the MS society are more then willing to help out with expenses. So what diability do you have that stops you from seeking employment or proper help? Of course, you have to have certified doctors' diagnostic certificates so you can access any help you may need. Are you in a wheelchair and need assistance from caregivers; how do you manage day to day as you are?

Please explain. Not criticizing, but need more information from you so our experts can at least know where you are going with this.

I also have fibromyalgiaq, a seizure disorder, type 2 diabeties and have been fighting panc cancer for about 6 years, I have asked thr societies for any assistance and have every refusal letter saying my ex makes too much money and should be helping. He has yet to do one thing the judge and the doctors have told him to do. It doesn't matter to him. This is why I was looking for other ways to get some money to help, grants anything. I am living off the charity of the local food banks and a couple churches