I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for three years but I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I'm worried but don't want to bring it up to my mom because I don't want her to know I've been sleeping with him. What should I do?

You don't want your mom to know you've been sexually active, but it's okay when she finds out she's going to be a grandmother?

Your number is bound to come up one of these days, so please use at least two forms of birth control. Women don't always get pregnant immediately. Sometimes it takes a year or more. It took me more than three, and I was married. And in my case, it was the male who had the problem.