I've been in a realationship for 5 months. We both love each other and truly mean that statement. We cuddle for hours and flirt all the time. We both enjoy our times together and everythings always good. But. Yes she has pecked my chek once and I did the same back and she likes it when I kiss her hand,neck,arm, shoulder etc... she will not kiss me back. This dismayed me and I was deeply upset. I disscussed it with her (2 times) and she finally revealed that she doesn't like kissing anyone she doesn't like kissing at all. I find kissing really special and it kills me that she won't kiss me back. We both like it when I kiss her and she knows how I feel but I still want a kiss. I reserve and have reserved my kisses for that one special person and I found them. She is the only person I ever want to and will kiss. But I looked on form sites and its just like she said she doesn't like kissing people. So I must live on with out a kiss. But I guess its not worth losing the love of my life over. I guess my question is do deserve a kiss or is it not important for me to get one.

I'm guessing you two are maybe 14 or so?

Kissing isn't all it's cracked up to be. Right now, your main job is to study hard, do well in school, and learn about each other--strengths and weaknesses, preferences and dislikes, joys and sorrows.

18 and yes we know every aspect good and bad about each other, we find it very important to each other to not hid anything and want to know about each other fully. I no longer need help on the topic because I realize now I don't really care. Yeah it's a nice thing but its not important. I choose love not greed therefore problem solved.

Let's be realistic. Eventually this is going to become a serious hindrance to the progression of your relationship. Try to work it out.