I looking for a song that has the lyrics "Is it in your mind at all" and it follows the same beat to Hall & Oats "I can't go for that" song. I don't know the name or who sing this song.

Simply Red - Sunrise

Sunrise (Single & Album Version) Simply Red

Is it a man or woman who sings the song?

If it is a man, it might be Beck and the name of the song is All in Your Mind.

Good Call Karma! I think you are right.