My girlfriend and I decided to have sex. I tried to penetrate her but at first I could not and after a few trials I could get inside her but not completely. She said it was painful and I could not insert for more that half of my penis. I tried to finger her but did not insert my complete finger into her vagina. The next day morning she called me up and told me that she had some blood stains and she had start to bleed but not profusely. She tells me that it is not her period. But I have always heard that virgins if they bleed for the first time, bleeding should occur during intercourse. But just after partial intercourse I observed that there was no blood but the next day she has started to bleed. I even asked her whether she got hurt or did something with her vagina that night before going to sleep as she had spotted the blood stains only in the morning. But she refused. Is it because of losing her virginity or someother problem? Or is it normal to bleed the next day after first time intercourse for virgins?

You sound so loving, accused her to "doing something at home" You have sex with little knowledge of what you are doing and it appears little concern over her.

Yes this is normal.

Yes, it can be perfectly normal for the bleeding to show up the next day. It can also be perfectly normal for there to not be any bleeding at all. It is a misconception that it is a required sign of virginity.

The bleeding can also be due to irritation. If she was not sufficiently aroused, there may not have been enough lubrication for sex to be comfortable. Take your time together.

If not trying to become pregnant, do be sure that contraceptives are used every time you engage in sex.

You couldn't get your penis into her vagina because SHE WAS NOT READY TO HAVE SEX.

Period.

Back off on the sex. She may SAY she is ready, but her body is proving that she isn't.

Me and my girlfriend recently had sex. She had told me that she is a virgin and she has not had any boyfriends earlier. During intercourse I could not penetrate her fully and she also could not withstand the pain so I backed off. The next day morning she called me up and told me that she has started to bleed and she noticed it during her bath. She has been bleeding for three days since then. But during penetration there was no blood at all. Is she a virgin really?

If you penetrated her she is no longer a virgin.

My girlfriend told me that she has not had any boyfriends earlier. While having sex with her I could not penetrate her totally as she could not bear the pain so I backed off. The next day morning she told me that she has started to bleed and was bleeding for 3 days. But during intercourse she did not bleed a little. I had told her earlier before sex that bleeding is a sign of virginity and assured that she had not had her hymen broken by any other means. Can virgins bleed the next day after sex? Is she a virgin?

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Originally Posted by shankar005100

My girlfriend told me that she has not had any boyfriends earlier. While having sex with her I could not penetrate her totally as she could not bear the pain so I backed off. The next day morning she told me that she has started to bleed and was bleeding for 3 days. But during intercourse she did not bleed a little. I had told her earlier before sex that bleeding is a sign of virginity and assured that she had not had her hymen broken by any other means. Can virgins bleed the next day after sex? Is she a virgin?

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So it's important to you that she's a virgin.

Are you also a virgin?