My partner doesn't want sex anymore.
HI
My partner of 2 yrs has completely lost Interest In having sex with me.
He says It's not me , at the moment he Is very stressed about his lack of work and money. I try to help him and be supportive , I am In the same situation with my business and know how worrying things are for him.
The trouble Is he Is one of those people who gets stressed whether he Is busy or not and although I never say anything because he gets angry I have noticed he often brings problems on himself I;e buying a really expensive watches when he has a bit of cash , then having to sell It to make ends meet a few months later.
At the moment and probably for the past year we only have sex once every 2 months, he hardly ever sleeps over at my house and I know for definite he's not having an affair, we spend all day , every day together, he Is really possessive over me all of the time . He just goes home to sleep In his own bed because he sleeps better on his own.
I love him and I know he loves me but I feel Increasingly sad and frustrated with the lack of sexual Intimacy, I've tried talking to him but he just says he has a lot of worries and then gets cross and tells me to look for another man. I suspect he may have some Impotency problems at times but he would never go to the doctors.
I hate to feel selfish but I feel dead from the waist down, I have just turned 40 and my dread Is that If I stay with my partner my sex life will be more or less over.
Any advice , please ?