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  • Mar 19, 2012, 09:04 AM
    luvroses
    As a gay, I'm confused as to how to handle this.
    HELLO every one.. I'm a gay guy of 25 yrs with average looks.

    Last month my brother In law (35 yrs) who lives with us with his wife (my sister) and a kId... came to know this fact about me. He also know that I have had gay relation with some one.

    Since few days I'm noticing that some times he becomes moody which makes my heart beat rise high abruptly. Being alone with me some times he hugs me tightly, bites on my shoulders, touches my waist lightly, pinches me, etc But yesterday he came In my room.. lIed beside me on my bed.. and kept his heavy thigh on my waIst.. Truly I was unable to move that time so I just turned opposite.

    Before I was very annoyed by his activities but lately I can feel my feelings are changing now. I can't help myself what to do.
    Some times I felt I must hug him too... but... I'm afraId.. I can't understand what's going In his mind. BUT the rest of the time he Is absolutely normal.. lovIng and caring as always. I'm confused by his behavIour.. please help me what to do?

    Thanks. For reading my problem.. Waiting for your valuable answers..
  • Mar 19, 2012, 01:44 PM
    talaniman
    It doesn't matter what's on his mind it is entirely inappropriate what he is doing as he is your sisters husband so you should tell him to quit disrespecting YOU, and her. That's what you do!

    Sexual orientation has nothing at all to do with good behavior, or good MANNERS. Stop allowing these liberties he takes because he can.
  • Mar 19, 2012, 02:09 PM
    mmresd
    You need to get away, he is married to your sister, you need to get out of there and respect the marriage. Even if he doesn't.
  • Mar 19, 2012, 07:41 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    He is married to your sister, ( assuming this silly story is true * which I doubt) you want to hurt and destroy your sisters life? And you let this happen, you should be ashamed of yourself.
    Gay does not mean you are a sex slut.
  • Mar 20, 2012, 03:29 AM
    Silver Lining
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    It doesn't matter whats on his mind it is entirely inappropriate what he is doing as he is your sisters husband so you should tell him to quit disrespecting YOU, and her. Thats what you do!!

    Sexual orientation has nothing at all to do with good behavior, or good MANNERS. Stop allowing these liberties he takes because he can.

    There,, u'v the answer,,

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