I was wondering if you could tell me if this guy likes me or not. I went to church on Sunday.there is a guy there. & him & his sister are the pastors Children. They made a bet before I got there which was if I was coming or not.( I was) So when I got there he came up to me & said "Yes your here! I knew you would be!" I just kind of laughed & smiled at him. (I didn't think anything of it) But as the night progressed & church was over there was an old building next to the church, in the old building was a long board lifted by some small pillers. So we took turns walking on the board, trying not to fall off. So me & this guy both we on the board & we held hands. Now that was out of the ordinary. When we jumped off the board we were still holding hands. Our whole church decided to go out &eat so he asked his parents if he could just ride in my car. His parents said yes & the whole ride there we were leaning on each other. After the meal we all went home. The next day the annual fair was in town so his family and mine as well met there. When we all got there the guy & I asked if we could go on our own and look around. Our parents are both very protective & have never said yes before but they agreed. So we went on. We decide to go to the carnival. When we got there he picked out the first ride.So we stood in line for about 30 minutes. He got tired because he had been working all day. (On his farm) So he put his arms around me & just leaned on me. Some time between that we held hands. He could tell that I was getting tired as well, (he is taller that me) He slouched over so he could look me in the eyes (still had his arms around me) & he just stared at me. He told me I was very pretty. After that ride was over my phone beeped & it was my ex boyfriend. The guy took my phone & told him to leave me alone & that if he ever hurt me he would beat the crap out of him & he said that as long as I was with him NOTHING was going to hurt me. As the night went on he decided to go on another ride. Now call me a scaredy cat but I HATE going upside down. But he told me that he was right there and everything was going to be all right, nothing was going to hurt me. So he picked me up and held me in his arms. After we had rode ALL the rides we could for one night we were hungry so we stopped to eat. While we were waiting for that, one of his favorite country songs played & he started to sing it. We danced around as if our lives deepened on it. He paid for me & I told him you didn't have to do that! & he said yes I do. That's part of being a man. Every one tells me that he likes me. Does he like me?

I'm a preacher's kid. Yes, he likes you and is wondering if you like him.

If you think he likes me, do you mind telling me why you think so.

Reread what you had written.

Do you want a list of reasons I think so based on what you wrote?

Yes please

1. They made a bet before I got there which was if I was coming or not.
2. So when I got there he came up to me & said "Yes your here! I knew you would be!"
3. So we took turns walking on the board, trying not to fall off. So me & this guy both we on the board & we held hands.
4. When we jumped off the board we were still holding hands.
5. He asked his parents if he could just ride in my car.
6. [During] the whole ride there we were leaning on each other.
7. When we all got [to the fair] the guy & I asked if we could go on our own and look around.
8. So we went on. We decide to go to the carnival.
9. So he put his arms around me & just leaned on me.
10. Some time between that we held hands.
11. He slouched over so he could look me in the eyes (still had his arms around me)
12. He just stared at me.
13. He told me I was very pretty.
14. [He] took my phone & told him to leave me alone
15. [He also said] if he ever hurt me he would beat the crap out of him
16. He said that as long as I was with him NOTHING was going to hurt me.
17. He told me that he was right there and everything was going to be all right, nothing was going to hurt me.
18. He picked me up and held me in his arms.
19. One of his favorite country songs played & he started to sing it. We danced around as if our lives depended on it.
20. He paid for me & I told him you didn't have to do that! & he said yes I do. That's part of being a man.

So you think there is a connection there?

You tell me.

I really do think that he is into me. & he is honestly everything I want in a guy. So my answer would have to be yes there is a connection

You go, girl!

Now I have you opinion. Thank you very much for that! But how do I go about asking him if he likes me or not?

You DON'T ask him that.

Guys are not like us. Let him do his own deciding what he tells you and when. Just be nice to him and enjoy being with him.

If only guy were like us! Ok I will thank you

Guys DO stuff to show they like us. Notice how many things your guy DID (not said).

Girls SAY stuff.

Read the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Grey.

Exactly! So what I am getting from what you said on the first comment was he showed enough evidence for you to know he likes me? & I will defiantly!

Yup. You always have to look at their ACTIONS.

If a guy is whispering sweet nothings in your ear but beating you up every day, guess what.

My husband told me only once that he loves me, and that was before we were married--and it was written down, not said out loud. We've been married almost 45 years. He's a definite DOER.

Aww that's awesome! (: very happy for you!

There is a guy Ive know for a while, about two years now. We like each other no doubt there. We have held hands, he has put his arm aorund me, kissed. We were both each others first kiss. He only does things like kiss me when we are alone. We are teenagers. Both our parents are againts dating. But we have broken "The not said 'Rules'". When we are alone he acts like he is totally in love with me. But when his friends, parents, my parents, or anyone he knows comes around that fades. I have two questions from this. 1. Why does he act like that? 2.How do I know he's still into me?