So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and when we got together we immediately clicked! I fell hard for this guy and we seemed like we were meant to be... we were together day and night almost everyday, I just kept falling even more in love with him, but my bestfreind was always getting in the way because he had feeling for me and honestly had feeling for him to in the PAST, one night me and him got really drunk and we ended up kissing and confessing everything to each other that night,but my boyfriend ended up finding out about everything. So he was really mad but I didn't feel bad about cheating until he confronted me about it... is that wrong?

Wow... And you think you did nothing wrong? Lady; it is wrong to be with someone and cheat on them with someone else... If I was not sure about whom I love, I would step away for some time (ALONE) and do a feeling check... You surely want one more than the other.. You are not a butterfly that can move between roses.. You are a person and what you did is wrong.. Step back from both relationships and have you time for a week of so... Clear you mind and then decide what need to be done, but sleeping with both, sorry but that is low

Sam

Cheating on your boyfriend is bad, not feeling bad about it is even worse. Why have a boyfriend at all? Just break up with him and have fun.

That is really wrong.. Is this an advice? A way of life you want?
What a person could you be?

Yes its wrong. Very wrong. I mean how would you feel if you had been cheated on and the guy didn't care what you felt about it?

You probably will cheat again when you get the chance.

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Originally Posted by lovelyness14

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and when we got together we immediately clicked! I fell hard for this guy and we seemed like we were meant to be.....we were together day and night almost everyday, I just kept falling even more in love with him, but my bestfreind was always getting in the way because he had feeling for me and honestly had feeling for him to in the PAST, one night me and him got really drunk and we ended up kissing and confessing everything to each other that night,but my boyfriend ended up finding out about everything. So he was really mad but I didn't feel bad about cheating until he confronted me about it...is that wrong?

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Yes, very wrong!

Remember: what goes around, comes around.

Sometime in the future it is likely that someone you are madly in love with will cheat on you in the same fashion that you cheated on your boyfriend. You WILL feel crushed and deeply hurt. The fact is that your boyfriend will be feeling like this right now. How can you not feel bad for hurting someone you love?!

You need to change your cheating ways before you end up hurting the people who love you. If you carry on cheating you will probably end up unloved and alone.

YOU have destroyed the trust in your relationship, since trust is one of the building blocks of a good relationship, don't expect him to stick around for long. He WILL go and find someone who loves him, deserves him, and ultimately won't consider cheating on him.