I have 5 good friends at school one of which is my best friend or at least she used to be. I think I like her but I'm not sure. Anyway, about 3 months back one of the 5 friends started flriting with her.(lets call her S and him L). Now S ignores me and only talks to L. One of my other friends notices it too. L is not a bad guy, I think its more S's fault. Getting blown off every day is really starting to tick me off. Im considering just forgetting about my currents friends and making new ones. Ive done it before but S is the best friend I've ever had(not anymore but still). What should I do?

Well s has a boyfriend now and that is going to happen. If s is blowing you off then s isn't your best friend?

If she does have a boyfriend she hasn't told me. And since s has started ignoring me I realize I have better friends. That's why I don't consider her my best friend anymore.

Sounds like L is now S's boyfriend and this may be why she is acting this way.

I agree. And if its true I'm confused as to why she won't tell me. Ive asked her if they go out but she always says no. Another thing, recently, L has started calling S every day. I know this because they talk about it at school.

I think that S might be blowing you off because she might have had feelings for you but she was too afraid to ask you out or whatever so she resorted to L and now feels totally ty because she was too afraid and doesn't have enough courage to talk to you really any more

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Originally Posted by Nonagon

I have 5 good friends at school one of which is my best friend or at least she used to be. I think i like her but im not sure. Anyway, about 3 months back one of the 5 friends started flriting with her.(lets call her S and him L). Now S ignores me and only talks to L. One of my other friends notices it too. L is not a bad guy, i think its more S's fault. Gettin blown off every day is really startin to tick me off. Im considering just forgetting about my currents friends and making new ones. Ive done it before but S is the best friend ive ever had(not anymore but still). What should i do?

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Ask both of them if they like each other and just talk to them secretly and don't let anybody know!

I think that you need to look at these so called friends and asess the situation. It is obvious that S and L are not true friends at all and if I was you, I would make yourself some new proper friends.
Best of look!!

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Originally Posted by serenitynow422

i think that S might be blowing you off because she might have had feelings for you but she was too afraid to ask you out or whatever so she resorted to L and now feels totally ty because she was too afraid and doesn't have enough courage to talk to you really any more

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The way you used ty doesn't make sense to me. I thought it meant thank you.

S and L have started referring to people in weird code names. It wouldn't bother me much but they won't tell me who the people are. Out of the 5 of the friends 4 know who they are. The ones left in the dark are me and another guy. L, S, and the other girls are the only ones that know the names. Their reason for not telling me is cause I'm a guy. Well then why in the heck would L know(could it be that him and S go out? Obviously they do)Stuff like that really ticks me off and its been happening increasingly often. And yes, some of this post is just me venting.

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Originally Posted by Nonagon

I have 5 good friends at school one of which is my best friend or at least she used to be. I think i like her but im not sure. Anyway, about 3 months back one of the 5 friends started flriting with her.(lets call her S and him L). Now S ignores me and only talks to L. One of my other friends notices it too. L is not a bad guy, i think its more S's fault. Gettin blown off every day is really startin to tick me off. Im considering just forgetting about my currents friends and making new ones. Ive done it before but S is the best friend ive ever had(not anymore but still). What should i do?

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U should blow dem off 2 cauze that's scanless how da doing u