Okay, I am 15 year old and I like a guy who is sixteen I have known him for not so long but I am starting do develop some feelings for this guy.. He has a grilfriend though but he might break up with her.. He is coming this Friday and I really want to kiss him in some way.. I don't know what to do because he says he is intereseted in me too and that he is maybe going to break up pwith his girlfriend.. What do I do.. I kind of want him to break up witth her.. I know its mean and I feel bad because I am not a kind of person who would let anyone cheat on anyone.. I really like him though so what do I do?.

I've been there.

A guy I was interested in, that had a girlfriend, told me he wanted to be with me instead. I gave him more than a kiss, and guess what? He not only didn't break up with his girlfriend, he ended up marrying her years later. The marriage only lasted a year, but still, I gave myself to someone that wasn't available, and I paid the price.

Until he breaks up with his girlfriend, he's not available, and you should pursue him. If he does break up with him, then he's free to date you.

Of course you're both very young, and that chance that you'll be together forever are very slim. But still, is he's with another girl, you stay clear of him. He has to decide who he wants to be with. If he doesn't break up with her, he's made his choice, and it's not you.

Thanks but he said that his girfriend has been giving him a lot of trouble lately and that he might break up with her because of that.. so should I keep liking him or just let go?.

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Originally Posted by kikico

thanks but he said that his girfriend has been giving him alot of trouble lately and that he might break up with her becuase of that.. so should i keep liking him or just let go ?..

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Liking him isn't the issue. Acting on your feelings is.

Until he's single, I'd give up on him.

I'd leave him alone and let him make up his mind about what he wants to do about his current relationship. Getting involved will only muddy the waters more, make it more confusing for him to know what to do, be unfair to his girlfriend, and cause you to set yourself up for possible heartache.

This is one time you have to let your head lead the way instead of your heart. IF the two of you do end up together, better that it be with a clear conscience and without any drama from an angry girlfriend. Do not allow yourself to be talked into anything. If he cheats on her with you, how would you ever trust him not to do the same to you someday?

Honey, He's taken. I have been there. I wanted a guy to kiss me when his girlfriend was one of my friends. It wasn't so good. So I know how you feel. Wait and see. You said they might break up. There's your chance!
Good Luck:)

Stay out of it, let them be happy, don't be the reason they break up, it never turns out pretty. Trust me, I've been there, done that! I know the feeling! Just wait, if they break up then great, but if not then move on.