I have never been able to reach orgasm. I have been trying since about age of 17, and I'm now 21. I have experienced both oral and physical sex and it feels pleasurable, but it just stops there. :mad:

Are you on any antidepressants? That hinders you from reaching orgasm. Have you ever masturbated to orgasm? You might want to try that first. After becoming comfortable with that it might be easier to relax and come to orgasm with your mate. A lot of women only have clitoris orgasms not internal. Stimulate your clitoris in a circle motion and relax. It will happen.

I am frustrated to no avail on the female orgasm. I can stimulate my clitoris with a vibrator and get off within a couple of minutes. I cannot from what my partner claims, have an orgasm during sexual intercourse. He always gives me a complex that most women he has been with have had multiple orgasms and I cannot produce any. I have experienced squirting or spraying and wonder if that is a form of orgasm. Can I experience both and what do you suggest for reference on techniques for orgasmic success?