Recently me and my boyfriend broke up, well he did the breaking up, I am 5 months pregnant, he says that I have no iniciative, and I just keep making up excuses, but I've stopped doing that, I am trying to get a job, I'm on the way to getting a car, and he asked me to give him space I have, I've stopped calling him and if I do talk to him its like for 2 minutes. but its like he's trying to start fights with me, I don't know what to do PLEASE someone help me?

His timing is so perfect. You have enough on your plate that you don't need jerky boy starting anything right now. Forget him and make sure your baby is coming safely into a happy, healthy. Environment. You've got plenty of time to snatch the child support from his butt. Baby comes first. I hate it when guys are stupid.

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Originally Posted by reneeg20

Recently me and my bf broke up, well he did the breaking up, i am 5 months pregnant, he says tht i have no iniciative,

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Stop right there. So your ex boyfriend gets you pregnant then bails after 5 months leaving you to take care of the responsibilities and get a job on top of it and he says you’re the one with no initiative? That’s pathetic. He’s really a pathetic human being.

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Originally Posted by reneeg20

and i just keep making up excuses, but ive stopped doing that, i am trying to get a job, im on the way to getting a car, and he asked me to give him space i have, ive stopped calling him and if i do talk to him its like for 2 mins., but its like hes trying to start fights with me, i dont know what to do PLEASE someone help me?

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I don’t know if you going to like this answer but I think you are so much better off with out him. Your baby doesn’t need a loser like that for his or her father either. What kind of role model is that? I’d start making plans without him in your life.

I am with everybody else on this one.

He is just finding an excuse to leave you especially now that your pregnant. He does not want to take the responsibility of having a child and taking care of a child. You do have enough on your plate. You should not have to worry about a job right now or to have an idiot back making you feel like shi$.

How to get him back? Do not he is a a$$hole, that you do not need around, but once the baby comes into the world and everything has settled down I would sue his a$$ for child support and make sure you get him good.

Joe

Okay Jesushelper inspired me I'm going off on a rant,

That piece of $hit isn't close to being a man. To call him an ex BOYfriend is even a stretch. Most boys can handle some responsibilities. Actually it's like you've already had the baby. Not to insult the 5 month old not born yet though, because I'm sure he/she is already more mature than douchebag.

It's guys like this that really piss me off because there are some many guys that would never even consider deserting you at all. Even some if they didn't want to be the relationship would nut up and be men and support you through the pregnancy both finacially and emotionally. Most fathers would give there life for their child and this jerkoff can't even offer to help you through the pregnancy. Your ex douchebag can't even handle that. How dare he tell you that you have no initiative. He has no balls. None.

It's his job to help you when your pregnant, period. That's what a man does. In a year from now he would be with in his rights to ask you to get a job to help with finances but not now. Now his first concern should be the welfare of you and his child. But he can't even be bothered with that. What a useless human being.