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  • Mar 9, 2012, 10:45 PM
    Weeziebaby
    15 and possible pregnant
    I'm 15 , my boyfriends 17.. We had sex Feb 8th I got my period normally after that. But this month I got it on time again. But this time it is very light. And brown& sometimes red. I'm not on the pill. We had sex with the condom on for a like 5 min. Then we took it off or like 2 min. And I didn't want to risk anything so I got off him. He didn't do anything in side of me, but I was scared about pre *** cause I know sometimes if sperms left over you can get pregnant. Does it sound like my periods normal to you guys? Should I worry? What should I do I'm freaking out.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 10:51 PM
    Wondergirl
    Yes, you should worry until you've found out for sure you aren't pregnant. Sex = baby, even with several kinds of birth control being used.

    Do you know what to do next?
  • Mar 9, 2012, 10:56 PM
    Weeziebaby
    My parents don't know I have sex. No I don't know what to do. My boyfriend told me don't worry. Cause he didn't *** inside of me. He didn't to it at all.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:01 PM
    Wondergirl
    Of course he did. There was leakage. He may not have felt it, but it happened. For two minutes?? Sperm were having a field day!

    You've missed one period and this is the second one since you had sex? Take an ept with first morning urine. If I were you, if it's negative, I'd repeat it in two weeks and then again if my next period is weird.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:04 PM
    Weeziebaby
    Not for two minutes. Barely sorry my key boards messed up it was not even a minute. I didn't miss a period! I have a light one this month. But I have been having a lot of stress lately plus I have ovarian cists I don't know if that has something to do with it.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:05 PM
    J_9
    I agree with Wondergirl, you should be worried at this point. A guy doesn't have to ejaculate for you to get pregnant. There are plenty of sperm in the early pre-ejaculate fluids that can cause pregnancy.

    You can take a test using first morning urine to find out whether you are pregnant. However, you should test again next month around when your period is due.

    Are you prepared to tell your parents that they are going to be grandparents? That will happen if you continue having sex this way.

    Using multiple forms of birth control is recommended, but is still not always 100% effective.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:06 PM
    Weeziebaby
    Not for two minutes. Barely sorry my key boards messed up it was not even a minute. I didn't miss a period! I have a light one this month. But I have been having a lot of stress lately plus I have ovarian cists I don't know if that has something to do with it.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:10 PM
    J_9
    I would also like to add that having sex at your age may be illegal in your location. If your parents find out that you are engaging in intercourse with a 17 year old, depending on your location, he could be charged with statutory rape and be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:16 PM
    Weeziebaby
    No. It's not. It's only a 2 year age difference and my parents knew we have been dating for 2 years.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 11:27 PM
    J_9
    The age of consent in Pennsylvania is 16, so he is committing statutory rape if this is where you are located.
  • Mar 10, 2012, 09:29 AM
    Weeziebaby
    I don't live there... I'm not saying where I live.

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