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  • Mar 9, 2012, 06:11 PM
    keon_ri
    Short lasting in bed
    I have problem with not lasting long in bed as Reach the point (***) within minutes.
    Please help me
    Every time am having sex I *** very quick. Is there anything that can help me apart from drugs?
    I want to enjoy it for longer and only *** once and 5 times.

    Serious answers only please
  • Mar 10, 2012, 03:57 AM
    keon_ri
    *not 5 times
  • Mar 10, 2012, 06:43 AM
    JudyKayTee
    I don't understand the "five times" part - and the corrected "five times" part.

    Are you a male or a female? I'm assuming you are a male.
  • Mar 13, 2012, 10:45 AM
    Beardedsumo
    The most common "assist" in maintaining an erection is mechanical - the "cock ring." It compresses the veins slowing the draining of blood from the erection. There are elaborate elastic devices, actual metal rings, or a simple piece of twine. Homemade devices can be dangerous if they constrict too much blood flow.

    Men can also train themselves to keep from ejaculating, sometimes as easily as thinking of multiplication tables at the right moment instead of the sensation.
  • Mar 13, 2012, 10:51 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Beardedsumo View Post
    The most common "assist" in maintaining an erection is mechanical - the "cock ring." It compresses the veins slowing the draining of blood from the erection. There are elaborate elastic devices, actual metal rings, or a simple piece of twine. Homemade devices can be dangerous if they constrict too much blood flow.

    Men can also train themselves to keep from ejaculating, sometimes as easily as thinking of multiplication tables at the right moment instead of the sensation.


    I don't see an erection is the OP's problem.

    Cock rings are, in fact, very dangerous - both purchased and homemade. I was part owner of a Pharmacy and we saw injuries more often than I ever would have guessed.

    Until the OP comes back and explains the "5 times" I don't know what he's asking.
  • Mar 21, 2012, 02:18 PM
    SentientAndroid
    I think it's more of a mental control thing and having adequate willpower. If you feel yourself in the very beginning stages of releasing I'd say either pull out completely and try to "reset" (calm down) your mind and body or slow down with the strokes. I usually (and I assume most guys) tend to reach their peak rather quickly after a series of quick strokes. I have reached my peak a few times from rather slow and deliberate strokes, but I would imagine that faster strokes lead to a climax a bit more frequently than slow strokes. But then again everyone is different.
  • Mar 21, 2012, 03:05 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Do what Queen Victoria did - think of something else, preferably England.

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