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  • Mar 9, 2012, 03:38 PM
    Ttaylor888
    My boyfriend is really upset with me, what should I do?
    Me and my boyfriend live together, a few night we got into a big fight and he told me to leave, so I did, he then decided to take a little trip and said I was coming with him, so I did, thinking we were OK. The whole trip he barely looked at me or spoke to me... It made me feel very uncomfortable.. We come home and he is still acting distant.. I'm worried he is testing me or just doesn't care anymore... I don't know what to do, anything to make him feel better, eeek help
  • Mar 9, 2012, 05:23 PM
    mmresd
    Talk to him, communication is key. Ask him about what is going on.
  • Mar 10, 2012, 11:38 AM
    grammadidi
    Yes, if you two want a strong, lasting relationship you both need to communicate well (talking AND listening) and show each other love. Testing, distancing, telling your partner to leave, barely speaking to one another, not looking at one another... all recipes for failure. Express yourself in a loving, caring manner and request the same. If you can't communticate then you don't have what you think you have... or what you truly want.

    Hugs, Didi
  • Mar 10, 2012, 06:26 PM
    talaniman
    Leave and let him get over his anger.

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