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  • Mar 9, 2012, 02:45 PM
    LadySam
    Taking Today to be Thankful.
    I have often been told that I overthink things, and I guess at times I do.
    Even if no one sees this it helps me to put things in writing to gain a better perspective.
    I am going into day 20 of fracturing a bone in my hand and having it immobilized most of the time.
    I have found that there are many things I take for granted.
    I'm having real difficulty with,
    Fixing breakfast, eating it, and then cleaning up my mess.
    Taking the dogs out for their bathroom breaks.
    Picking up my grandson without hesitation.
    Tying my shoes, hooking my bra.
    Writing, typing.
    Weedeating the grass that has grown up from the birdseed that I toss out.
    Opening a simple bottle.
    Slicing anything up in the kitchen.
    My job.

    These are just a few things but, has it ever made me appreciate the things that I can normally do on a daily basis. And realize just how fortunate I am.
    But depending on how you look at things,
    I can fix breakfast, eat it and my daughter cleans up my mess.
    The dogs go out in two trips, more exercise for me.
    I can kiss my grandson endlessly.
    Leaving my shoes tied and simply slipping my feet in is pretty easy.
    Sports bras are comforatable.
    Writing and typing are still tricky.
    I enjoy the birds flitting around in the tall grass while hunting for seeds.
    My son opens my bottles and jars, he likes to feel needed.
    Finding alternate ways to prepare meals is fun.
    And my co-workers are great at making allowances and doing the things I simply cannot.

    I know, I am a silly, emotional female, but I'd like to take a moment to simply be thankful for small things.
    I think life is so rushed and hectic that people sometimes forget how fortunate they are to have good health and good people around them.
    Much like I have many times in the past, but not in the future.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 07:03 PM
    cdad
    Its too bad they can't sell the smell of roses by the dozen. But taking the time to smell the roses and reflect is always a good thing. It puts life into perspective. It grounds you to what life is really about. Congratulations on taking the time to smell the roses of your life and sharing with others. It gives hope to the world.
  • Mar 9, 2012, 07:12 PM
    Alty
    I don't think you're silly at all.

    It's funny how it takes a major change for us to appreciate the day to day. I highly recommend it for everyone, not that I'm hoping that anyone else fractures their wrist, but sometimes it's a much needed episode in our lives to make us appreciate what we have.

    Griping about all the things we want, and don't have, is common place. We all do it. I'm guilty of it too. But there are so many things to be thankful for, and taking the time to list the things that make us happy and thankful, that's never ever silly.

    I have many health issues going on. I won't put you to sleep with the details, but needless to say, these issues have changed my life, and not for the better. But... but! I have two wonderful children, I have a wonderful husband, I have family and friends that I love, and spring is coming! In fact, it was absolutely balmy today, and that's saying a lot considering that I'm in Canada and it just snowed a few days ago. ;)

    So I'll join you and be thankful. I hope it's not just for today. :)

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