Hey , I'm having problems with my boyfriend. Were together for 2 years now and when we started datin we used to have a lot of sex. And with a lot I mean a few times a day. I'm living together with him now for almost a year and our sexlive has really died. We almost never do it.. Only twice a moth or 4 if I get lucky. I tried a lot of thing. Different ways to turn him on, sexy lingery, talking dirty.. But nothing helpes. So I'm staring to wonder if he has someone else. Of he's just not sexualy atracted to me anymore ? But even then both of the answeres are bad. What should I do ? By the way talking to him doesn't help.. He sais its nothing and that I shouldn't worry.. Then he promises that well have sex in the weekend but it never happenes

It is basically life, several times a day of course is not a realistic number, people work they do house hold duties and get tired.

Yes but I would at least like to do it 2 times a week. Shouldn't be that hard. I didn't do it for over a month now. He preferes playing playstation and watching football and doesn't do anything in the household to get tired of.

Maybe time to move on, he probably fell out of love with you, or he is very imature. Remember you only have 1 life don't waste it on trying to get something out of nothing because years pass by real fast an you never get them back...

How old is he? How many stressors does he have right now... like being overworked and in fear of being laid off constantly? Any medical issues that could have been agrivated by the current job market and economy... when did he last have a complete physical? Lots of possible answers to this... some medical... some mental.

Obviously the "new meat" excitement wears off and then he won't want to do it several times a day because that requires that level of excitement to pull off. Nobody can do that forever.

Many guys as an example could pull it off with four different women a day for a LONG long time... but that's way different than doing it four times a day with the same woman, every day... no matter how much he loves her.

Then there is this... is there any possible way he might "PERCIEVE" a problem... like something he sees as nagging or hounding (you don't have to actually be doing that as long as he might think you are). There is little that can kill a libido faster than that will. And that's me speaking as a guy.