My husband became a quad in 1995 I brought him home to take caare of him even though we were separated I did my duty of a wife he stayed for 4 yrs until family came and took him out my house while I was gone he has been with them for 1r years and a week ago he asked .for a divorce and I don't want it I still love him. What are the procedure for not wanting this divorce he is living off my social security. Will this divorce affect his benefits hope not