Me and my ex boyfrien broke up and its been almost a month and I still have feelings for him I stopped communication with him and I started to feel better with being single but he started texting me saying I love you babby and I want to be for boyfriend again and it started making me love him again and sometimes I can't stand him them sometimes I love him sometimes I miss him IDK IM CONFUSED HE IS CONFUSING ME !

Why did you break up? Was he unfaithful? Was the relationship becoming stale?

Try to remember that you broke up for a reason and stay strong. We all have feelings for ex's, usually for years to come. After all, they usually remind you of a large amount of time in your life.

Think about what you want. If you're still in love with him, try to resolve the reasons you broke up first and ease back into it. If you're not, then cut off all communications until you're confident that you're over it. Good luck!

In order to stop being confused, you must not see him for a couple of days to take a breather and really know what you want. Do not stress out. You have to define first what you really want and what makes you happy. Remember that if you're in a relationship with the wrong guy, Mr. Right won't be able to be with you. So, know if he's the right one before you miss the opportunity of being the happiest person in the whole world with the one.

You better focus on yourself first to eliminate the confusion when you're with your boyfriend or when he's texting you out of the blue. You said you can live without him and you're happy being single right? Then give you and your boyfriend some space and the confusion will eventually go away.

Life is confusing sometimes but as long as you know what you want, you won't get lost. Try out a new hobby, go out with your friends, and hang out at the mall to meet other guys that would interest you. List down the things that you want to achieve and actually try doing them and don't focus any more of your energy on that boy who confuses you.

How old are you? The answer to that somewhat changes my thinking.

What was the reason for break up? That makes all the difference.