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My boyfriend and I last talked on 15th Feb. I was angry with him. He called me back, but I didn't pick up. Next day also he called me, but I didn't pick up. Now it has been 15 days. He didn't call me at all nor did I call him. What does that mean? Is he angry with me or does he want to break up? Am feeling really restless and have cried a lot.
What does that mean? It means (by your not picking up the phone and communicating with him) that you are no longer interested in him. Apparently, he got the message loud and clear.
You ignored him, now he is ignoring you. That's what it means. Who will give first?
There aree so many reasons maybe because he felt like you didn't want to be bothered nobody wants to keep calling a person if they won't answer
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Now it has been 15 days.He didn't call me at all nor did I call him And on 3rd March I calld him about 16 times but he didn't pick up. I text him asking him for reasons for behaving like that, but no reply.
I'm really confused and depressed. And yeah we were in relationship for 3 years, and he has always treated me well, and even talked of getting married. Now what's wrong with him? What's going on? Please help.I feel suffocated.
I'd say he is thinking the same thing you are now... wondering why you were ignoring him when he was reaching out to you!
Now he is angry, hurt, and frustrated because he tried to get in touch with you and you ignored him. Then you had the gall to question him about his behaviour when he didn't answer your calls!
It won't always work on your terms, as you have found out. So now you wait. He obviously knows that you are trying to contact him. If you hadn't before, you might send one last text to apologize for not responding to him when he tried to contact you and let him know that you want to work things out. Then don't contact him again.
He needs time, and it is up to him to decide how much time, to deal with his feelings on the situation. He is likely sorting out his feelings about whatever it was you argued about in the first place, and now also this back and forth of ignoring each other.
When he finally does contact you, and he likely will sooner or later, figure out together a better way to handle your disagreements with each other. This is very important and will help you greatly before you consider possible marriage in the future.
I may be wrong, but I am guessing that the situation that led up to this was in reality a fairly minor one and look how it got blown up!
I wish you well... hope it gets sorted soon.
Is there a reason you cannot talk this over face to face? I think he is tired of your crap, and teaching you a lesson.
Yes girls,I can't talk with him face 2 face as he is at his hometown,which is 1 n half day far frm my place.plz help girls I text him saying that if he wants to brk up or got sum1 else let me know,but no respose frm him at all.he has neva bhaved like this before,am really stressed.wat does he wants? help
So this is a long distance relationship? No wonder its so shaky. If the only contact you have is one of anger and games then that destroys any bonding and good feelings.
I think you relax and leave him alone to act, as you have tried, and tried with no response. Yes you take this as a break up, and for whatever reasons you start protecting your own heart.
How old are you and how longs has this relationship been going on? And I am not a girl.
My boyfriend & I last talked on 15th Feb.I was angry with him,so I hung up the call.He called me back, but I didn't pick up. Next day also he called me,but only once and I didn't pick up.For 15 days we didn't call each other.On 3rd march I called him about 16 times but he didn't pick up and I texted him saying if he wants to break up or get someone else then let me know,but no response from him at all. What does that mean? Is he angry with me or he wants to break up? Or found someone else? Yes we were in a relationship for 3 yrs & he never did this before to me.he always says he loves me and all. Now what's wrong?what's going on in his mind please give me some reasonable solutions please
Well, you hung up on him and then wouldn't answer him... after all this time, he's probably decided that he's better off without you. You could keep trying I suppose but it sounds like he's done.
Just think about this next time you want to play games like that with someone. It doesn't always work out for you.
Well 3 years is a long time. He probably is upset u Hung up in the first place. A guy seems to need to be in control. U can't be the one ending the argument. He has to. Sounds like too, Is that he's giving you a taste of your own medicine. I always get this crap from my significant other. Forewarning it seems to get worse the longer you are together. It doesn't soundvlike it's a breakup sit. By what u said. I guess depending on what the argumrnyvwas about. He's probably gathering his thouhts
It may be that he lost his phone, or maybe lost his charger. Don't jump into any conclusions.
It also may be possible that he is treating you the same way you treated him, by ignoring him. It doesn't feel good does it? Next time, don't do things to people that you wouldn't want done to you.
Until he decides to say something, which puts him in control of the situation now, you are just going to have to wait. Unless, you don't think he is worth waiting for, then you can just break up with him and move on with your life.
I'm with odinn. By March 3rd, he figured you were out of his life and had moved on. I wouldn't put any fault about this at his door.
It may be that he lost his phone, or maybe lost his charger. Don't jump into any conclusions.
It also may be possible that he is treating you the same way you treated him, by ignoring him. It doesn't feel good does it? Next time, don't do things to people that you wouldn't want done to you.
Until he decides to say something, which puts him in control of the situation now, you are just going to have to wait. Unless, you don't think he is worth waiting for, then you can just break up with him and move on with your life.
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I am so confused n depressed am not understanding what to do. Should I text him and end the relationship by myself.I am really going through a hard phase of life right now.I want to know why is he doing like this to me. He never did like this before, and even me I've never called a guy like this before. It makes me feel so desperate. What should I do now? Help me, I feel like committing suicide. Please guys help me, or else I might do something to myself!
It would be foolish, selfish and just plain dumb to harm yourself over a guy who is ignoring you. Just send him a one word text "good bye", and get yourself under control and heal, and move on!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mysteriousgal11
That's what you should do, and deal with those other hard times in your life.
Me & my boyfren,we wer seeing each other for 3 yrs.everything was going fine,but on 15 feb we quarelled on something & since that day he didn't call me for almost 1 month nor received my call.on march 13th he call me and said he was angry with me dats why he did like that.since that day he call me often bt I don't feel like before and don't use to talk nicely with him but again after sumdays again he hardly use to call me and I don't feel good so I started calling him.please help me what should I do am really confused. When he doesn't calls me I feel so lost and rejected but when he does I feel like he treated me very bad by not calling me 1 month.I really need help
Do you still love him? If you're also doubting your love for him, then try meeting other people and going out to dates with other people. Don't waste your precious time sitting by the phone hoping and wishing for him to call you.
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