I have been married for 20 years I am 39 I have two son 18 and19 my husband has been on crack for the last ten years I had to work two jobs to make ends meet my kids are now grown and I have lupus and can't work anymore idraw social security and my husband has gotten worse he is selling everything I don't have a car he has the only car and I don't have enough money to leave what should I do

Leave, please... is it possible you can stay with one of your children? Or a close friend/relative? I had several drug addicts in my family, so I know that unless he wants help(which it doesn't seem like), it will only get worse... you've worked hard enough, & it can be hard starting over, but now it's time to focus on you for a change. If there is no one to help, try internet searches or check the phonebook for human resources in your area. You don't have to be alone in your decision. Take care.

*Human services, not human resources... also look under social service/welfare organizations... United way first call for help... hope some of these suggestions help