I am the mother of a child who has 5 now adult children -my daughter has had thousands of pounds off me and the children are now going through hell. I could tell you terrible tales. Is there any hope of getting her to see sense. I know she must want to stop, but she won't listen to anyone. No answers I suppose

Please tell us more. "Going through hell" over what? "See sense" about what? "Want to stop" what?

Gwendoline, could you please give us more information as to your situation? We would like to help you, but the limited info you have provided hinders us from giving appropriate advice.