I'm 35 and I'm not married and a lot of friends are. Well the friends that are married I don't really talk to. I would love to reconnect with them but I feel silly to. I keeping have this insecurity that will judge me for not being married even though I shouldn't feel that way.. What do you think. I usto to have a lot of friends but lately not much..

You are correct, you are just being silly because you don't do something because of something that may or may not happen.

You may talk to one of them, they give you a lottery number and you become rich.
You may talk to one of them and find out they hated you their entire life.

Life goes that way. So you chat, talk and see what happens.

I would say let go of the insecurity and start talking to your old friends again. Who cares what anyone thinks about you?

Maybe its time for some new single friends, who do single things, where you fit in better, and enjoy yourself more. That may help the insecurities. Its not silly unless you let it get to you. I mean who cares what, and who they judge you to be, or why?

Live your own life.