My boyfriend hasn't physically "cheated" on me as far as I know there's been rumors, but I've caught him online TWICE. Doing things among the lines of accepting blow job offers and telling them that they have nice boobs or they're lesbians and he tells them their girlfriends are hot.. . I've had a really bad past with men and in my book if they don't physically abuse me they're the best guy in the world. He's never put off any signs other than texting A LOT or going online A LOT, but sometimes when he thinks I'm "sleeping" he gets out his phone and texts when I "wake-up" he throws it down. I've also caught him with pictures of "himself" (if you know what I mean) on his phone and I don't have any of them pictures I don't go through his stuff only Facebook when I had suspicion the last couple times I caught him... I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but I don't know what to do... Should it be "Three strikes you're out" or Something else.. . Help? /:

To me, that is cheating. Accepting offers from women online and telling them they have nice boobs? I also think the other activity you mention is plenty suspicious as well.

Also, I have found that usually if you suspect someone because of their behavior, most times you are correct.

He's lied straight to my face about it plenty of times.. I just don't know.. I love him /:

Why be so stuck on a liar? No telling what else he isn't being honest about. That's not love, or caring its deceit. You can do better.

Ugh.

Is there any way I can help change these horrible habits of his? I mean it's going to kill me.. .