My wife and I want to have a threesome with a male friend of mine but don't really know how to get it started.

It is very dangeros action you will loose your wife and she will not like you any more, good luck.

John

I would not advise it, but you set a day and time to get together. You sit down and sit rules.

If this is something that both of you want then you have to set down rules for all the people involved.

Most people think that this sounds like a good idea, until they're in the act, or after the act.

Will you be okay with another man touching, kissing, etc your wife? Will she be okay with you and another man? Have the two of you discussed what you want to have happen. Have you accepted that what you want and what will actually happen will be very different?

The fantasy is always much better than the reality. Most people can't handle it.

Good luck.

While threesomes do work out, it is more the exception than the rule. If this is something you both have decided to do, boundaries must be set. Is this going to be a person you both know? If so, I don't recommend it. If there is any jealousy in your relationship whatsoever, I don't recommend it.

I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt AND the divorce (although we were a threesome including another woman than a man.