Do men realise what they have lost when we leave? Do they come back? My ex came back and said sorry after many years. He's married now and I don't like him like that. It was nice to hear it though, but it was just too late. I've recently split from someone that I loved. I had to leave him because he wasn't treating me right. I talked to him about it, I tried telling him but he wouldn't listen... I ended it eventually.

Do men realise what they lost when the love they asked for walked in their life and leaves because they didn't take care of it. And do they come back? And why do they come back. Has anyone out there been in a situation like that. Where you have done all you can do to keep you both together and your partner takes you for granted because they know you love them more than they love you.. Be nice to hear from stories.

For a moment I was having a bad time dealing with the break up even though I left.. It's so easy to go back because you love them and be willing to put up with. I'm finding it hard staying left even though I was right to walk away. I had to walk away to show my value and because if I didn't , it would have been worse if he'd left me I guess even though it wasn't about who leaves who first. I loved him I did and part of me still does. I just couldn't take being mistreated anymore by him.

It's not easy but I mean to go on. We'd argue and he wouldn't call me for weeks then I'd call him and we'd get back together. It's been nearly 3 months. He needs to feel the absence of my presence and possibly on then will he know what he had and what he let go.

I would love to hear your views.

I honestly believe they do on both parts. But there could also be a part of it that he is growing as an adult and realizing his mistakes towards other people and making peace. I wouldn't worry too muuch into it as long as he doesn't make a habit to contact you anymore. If he does continue to do so, I would ask what his motives are to contacting you so much when he should be contacting his wife. If he gives you a reason to think he is still in love with you I would ask myself a few questions like... Would I want my daughter going through the same mistreatment as I went through? Is it worth it to know there could be a possibility of history repeating itselt? And last if it was to be a reconnection between you two.. Am I strong enough to get out before I am put out at the first sign of mistreatment? But if he gives an answer as to he is just making peace for everything he's done. Then I would think hard about the apology and be strong enough to say thank you and move on from there. There's no point on jumping to conclusions if he gives you no reason to be. Hope this helps & Goodluck!

The ex boyfriend who came back who is married he's no problem. I was giving an example as to a your ex man coming back thing. (Me and him are cool - well coolish lol. I've got no time for him at all, he would break his neck for me now if I call him for anything. Always the way once you gone though.

My present ex I'm talking about we haven't spoken for 3 months since I left him. I guess I answered my own question. They do.