I was with a guy who I considered to be my best friend and my boyfriend, for nine months. We had this special connection and we were really happy together. We were always together and did everything together. Towards the end of our relationship things got rocky. He started becoming more of an ***. I just felt hurt and so overwhelmed by him a lot. I eventually thought it over and broke it off with him. We never got back after we broke up, even though I tried. He just became very bitter towards me. He still does little things sometimes to make me thinks he still cares. Like messaging me for advice, telling me he is happy for me and my new guy, and then trying to re-add me 8 times after I deleted him. He got a new girlfriend, and I have a new boyfriend, but I still think about him everyday. I just can't seem to let him go and I don't know what to do. Plus I have to see him everyday and hear about him a lot.

Its only you can help yourself, if you keep on thingking his whereabouts will its possible you will never forget him... if you really wanted to forget him and move on, motivate yourself... try to go far from him,get a vacation do thing that can keep you busy that minimize to think on him... get yourself busy try some sports... fucos on your new love affair don't let things happened that maybe one morning you just woke up and that one that love you will gone .so keep on your mind don't waste your time on dwelling your past look at your new future...

If you already have a boyfriend, how come you are still stuck with an ex? Ask him to stop contacting you. Move on. Stop thinking about him. Rip him out of your mind. You can't get over him because you are not trying or wanting to get over him. Think and dream about your current boyfriend. Not your ex. And ignore him completely. If he texts delete it without reading. Just maintain a no contact policy. That's the only way to get over him.

Moving on is hard but when you get there you'll be happy. And your boyfriend will know that he let a good girl go. It comes to us all... it really does...