Hello. I need help. I'm freaking out. Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time. Ever. On Monday the 20th. It was unprotected. I KNOW. I'm an idiot. But it was only for like 6 minutes. 8 max. I'm POSITIVE I didn't ejaculate and I'm not even sure I had pre ejaculation come out. I've heard you can't get pregnant from pre come, but if you had sperm in your urethra the pre come can push it out. I had last ejaculated roughly 24 hours before this and urinated around 3 times. She last had her period roughly from 2/8 or 2/9 to 2/13. I don't even know if she was fertile. So we only had sex for about 6 minutes, and I don't know if pre-come ever came out, and she might not have been ovulating anyway. I need to know the chances of getting pregnant. I'm 17. This can't ruin my life.

Get your girlfriend an emergency contraception pill. The chances are less, but one cannot rule out possible pregnancy. And if you are SO worried of ruining your life, you shouldn't have had unprotected sex in the first place. I couldn't help but notice that you didn't mention the effects of pregnancy on your gf's life..

It amazes me that people don't understand that ANYTIME you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. You may not have orgasmed but you can't guarantee there was no leakage. At this point you can only sweat it out into she gets her period or she can take a test.

If the thought of her being pregnant freaks you out, then why have intercourse at all, let alone unprotected?

WOW you are brave even if you said yes he was supposed to respect you and respect that she is your best friend and worse yet your friend allowed it so my advise is get rid of the two of them because they'll have sex behind your back again because you allowed it once

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Originally Posted by PoisionNikki

WOW you are brave even if u said yes he was supposed to respect you and respect that she is your best friend and worse yet your friend allowed it so my advise is get rid of the two of them because they'll have sex behind your back again because u allowed it once

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Please reread the original post. That wasn't the situation at all.

It is too late to take the "Morning after pill" if this was a week ago.
Yes she can get pregnant from the early fluids. And yes if you were having sex for 5 or 6 min you would have had some fluids.

A women can get pregnant anytime during the month, but the chances or less.
At this point she may well be, With my first wife ( she has passed away) she got pregnant from the first time we had sex. My current wife and I tried for over a year before she did.
There is no way to say (90 percent) or (60 percent) she either is or she is not.

You both will not know till it is time for her next period, if she misses it, time for a pregnancy test,