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  • Feb 18, 2012, 04:13 PM
    echosong41
    Could a straight girl, who has just learned I'm a lesbian, be falling for me?
    I just told my crush of three years, who is also a friend, that I'm gay, and she's been acting different since then, but not in a bad way. We sit next to each other in class, and pass papers like usual, and lately she's been getting a lot closer to me, brushing hands and such, and staring at me from across the room. She never used to do that! Maybe I'm just completely over thinking it and I'm being way too hopeful, but I clearly need help, I'm paranoid here!
  • Feb 18, 2012, 04:25 PM
    Alty
    It's possible that she's also a lesbian, or bi. But there's really no way for us to know, especially with only your point of view to go on.

    Talk to her. Tell her how you feel.

    Know that doing this could lead to rejection, but really, the only person that knows how she feels is her.
  • Mar 2, 2012, 05:25 PM
    bluecomet12
    Just try and get to know her better. If she likes you, she'll open up eventually!
  • Mar 2, 2012, 07:24 PM
    mmresd
    Talk to her, see where it goes.
  • Mar 2, 2012, 08:31 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    If she is straight no, she would have no interest in you. That would be like saying, could you fall for this guy because he likes you. So could you just change and start liking guys ?
  • Mar 2, 2012, 10:29 PM
    talaniman
    If she is straight then you may well be seeing things a little off. Maybe too much wishfull thinking on your part.
  • Apr 4, 2012, 01:46 AM
    mimi18
    Just tell her how you feel. Be yourself..
    Goodluck!

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