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  • Feb 18, 2012, 01:50 PM
    jamesd23
    How long after oral sex do I get tested?
    So my friend had oral sex from a prostitute with a condom on – and took a serious shower afterwards and put on a lot of anti-bacteria by the way, so how long does he wait to take tests to see if he caught anything (and by anything I mean all the above – tests for everything – herpes, HIV, chlamydia, syphilis, just everything) because I heard some STDs can't be recognized until 4 months after the person was infected from the sexual encounter!

    And also what tests are they? As in, can it all be found with one test? Like a blood sample maybe.

    This is so serious, please help me I appreciate it so much
  • Feb 18, 2012, 06:20 PM
    afaroo
    What was the reason for him to have an oral sex from a prostite and how do you know that he had oral sex only?

    John
  • Feb 18, 2012, 07:05 PM
    jamesd23
    He did it because he founded it to be fun. And I know he only did oral sex because he told me - he is super worried about if he had caught something or not - so there's no reason he would lie - one who wants genuine help understands that the best way to get it is by being honest.
  • Feb 18, 2012, 07:08 PM
    odinn7
    I've been holding off but curiosity finally got to me... why are you asking this here instead of your friend?
  • Feb 18, 2012, 07:48 PM
    Synnen
    Your friend should consult his doctor.

    Some diseases are detectable and treatable early. Some take months or years to show up in any test, and some have no cure, ever.

    So the answer is that he goes to the doctor as soon as possible and discusses how often he should be tested for the rest of his life.
  • Feb 18, 2012, 07:57 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    How long after oral sex do I get tested?
    Who's I? You or your friend?

    It can take years for some diseases to be detectable. He's in this for life. I hope it was worth it since he only did it because "he founded it to be fun." The diseases he could have caught are not only not fun, but some are deadly. Sadly he may not know if he caught anything for many years to come. He'll have to be tested often. A doctor will determine how often.

    Not really worth a few minutes of fun, is it?
  • Feb 18, 2012, 08:03 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Who's I? You or your friend?

    LOL... that's what I was getting at.
  • Feb 18, 2012, 08:14 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You get some tests now, some in a few months and most likely a couple in about six months.
    Your doctor or clinic will be able to do a full panel of test.
  • Feb 20, 2012, 10:08 AM
    SentientAndroid
    I'm sorry, but lol. Is this one of those old "I have this friend..." questions? Just be honest man, you can be anonymous here.
  • Mar 20, 2012, 01:03 PM
    DLegend20
    Oral sex with condom doesn't transmit anything, even sex with condom as well is safe as long as there is not leak / break in the condom... don't worry ;)
    A lot of the answer are just embaraasing and questioning your question instead of giving a straight forward answer.. ;)
  • Mar 20, 2012, 01:57 PM
    Synnen
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DLegend20 View Post
    Oral sex with condom doesn't transmit anything, even sex with condom as well is safe as long as there is not leak / break in the condom ... don't worry ;)
    Alot of the answer are just embaraasing and questioning your question instead of giving a straight forward answer .. ;)

    A condom does NOT protect 100%. There IS still a chance of transmitting diseases when using a condom.

    Your answer is WRONG.
  • Mar 20, 2012, 03:54 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DLegend20 View Post
    Oral sex with condom doesn't transmit anything, even sex with condom as well is safe as long as there is not leak / break in the condom ... don't worry ;)
    Alot of the answer are just embaraasing and questioning your question instead of giving a straight forward answer .. ;)

    I'm curious, where did you get your info, your older brother? You couldn't be more wrong.

    The failure rate of condoms is alarming. If you don't know that, you're taking a huge risk.
  • Mar 21, 2012, 06:23 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DLegend20 View Post
    Oral sex with condom doesn't transmit anything, even sex with condom as well is safe as long as there is not leak / break in the condom ... don't worry ;)
    Alot of the answer are just embaraasing and questioning your question instead of giving a straight forward answer .. ;)


    Please post your reference source.
  • Mar 21, 2012, 12:14 PM
    CravenMorhead
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DLegend20 View Post
    Oral sex with condom doesn't transmit anything, even sex with condom as well is safe as long as there is not leak / break in the condom ... don't worry ;)
    Alot of the answer are just embaraasing and questioning your question instead of giving a straight forward answer .. ;)

    Having blew through a number of condoms...

    About the only thing they prevent is pregnancy. It is a barrier, but a porous barrier.

    So when being blown with a condom on, what is to stop herpes from going form lips to pecker? Over and around. Not to mention contact infection from the exterior. They're not as safe as you think.
  • Mar 21, 2012, 06:41 PM
    smoothy
    And the Natural skin (lambskin) condoms present no barrier at all to diseases... then you have the morons that think just rolling it over the tip will do the job... or that you can wash them and reuse them... (yes there are people that dumb).

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