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  • Feb 17, 2012, 07:07 AM
    bankar
    My girl friend is engaged with someone, what should I do?
    We broke up 2.5 years back for small reason. I have been waiting for her all these days, she knows that I'm waiting. Still she got engaged with some other guy as per parents instructions. Her engagement is over, she didn't even tell me. Now she is avoiding me if I call. What should I do.
  • Feb 17, 2012, 07:34 AM
    SentientAndroid
    That's rough man, but that's not your girlfriend at all anymore. She ceased being your girlfriend 2.5 years ago. I know it hurts and it sucks, but you really need to let go of the past and start the healing process, something that you really should have done... 2.4 years ago. Get your power back and move on with your life.
  • Feb 17, 2012, 07:38 AM
    odinn7
    She's not your girlfriend anymore. Give it up and move on. If she was interested, she wouldn't be avoiding you now.
  • Feb 17, 2012, 09:22 AM
    nitelight198073
    I agree with Odinn, move on you are in a world of heartache and pain right now dear, do not suffer anymore. Leave the girl alone
  • Feb 17, 2012, 11:44 AM
    mmresd
    You move on and stop your obsession over a two and a half year old break up. Never wait for someone, continue living your life after a break up.
  • Feb 17, 2012, 12:04 PM
    I wish
    She's avoiding you for a reason. Don't push it.
  • Feb 18, 2012, 12:00 AM
    talaniman
    That small thing must have been bigger than you thought. Sorry you waited so long for nothing, but time to stop the waiting.
  • Feb 18, 2012, 12:06 AM
    Alty
    It's way past time to let this girl go.

    She's given you no indication that she's willing to be with you. In fact, she's given you every indication that she's not.

    It's hard to let go of someone, but there comes a time when you have to accept that what you want just won't happen.

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