A bit long, so be ready to read...
Just to say, I'm about 17 and in high school, obviously. There's a guy in my class in whom I'm VERY interested. He intrigues me and I can't figure out what makes him tick. I don't usually have trouble pleasing someone because after a few meetings, I instinctively know how to be a person they'd like. It comes in very handy sometimes. But this guy, I have no idea how to seem attractive to him, I have no idea how to appeal to him. He's incredibly nice and friendly, but I haven't talked to him much. He doesn't really talk much in class so he's not really the popular type. He's sort of the tall and mysterious artist, if you know what I mean. When I talk to him, it just seems so easy and I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not, he's open and completely guileless. I REALLY want to get to know him better, but I can't really tell if I like him. All year, I've been refraining from liking anyone, I literally force myself to keep away because I don't want to be hurt. I've gone through quite a few rejections, but I've never made it to the point where I have a relationship and I'm now much too nervous to try. I've succeeded thus far with the refraining thing, but with this guy, I just can't. He's intrigued me all year (the past six months) and I've never really got up enough nerve to say more than a few passing greetings to him which is really stupid because he's not even that intimidating when you compare him to other guys I've struck up conversations with. What do you guys think? I've asked myself this question for ages and I can't come up with a straight answer... Do like him? Am I just intrigued? Please help!