Me an my boyfried have been dating over ayear now he is still married but broke up with his wife they have a 3year old daughter, he see her 4 times for the week, the problem is erveytime he go an pick up his daughter he is drunk an his wife is a control freak he does not want me around the little girl,at first everything was going well until I realise he does not want me around his child, I moved out cause I could not take the situation, he keep calling me telling me he does not wan me to come to te house cause he want to take his child there an be able to wacth TV an cook for her all am saying is why is he so obsess is it becaause he might still love his wife..

Why are you with a married man in the first place? Of course he doesn't want you around his child if he's still married! The child will tell her mother. And he doesn't sound "obsessed" he sounds like he's choosing his child over his mistress.

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the problem is erveytime he go an pick up his daughter he is drunk

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You let him pick up his daughter while he's drunk? 'Nuff said!

First of all. Your OK with him basically hiding you? That's pathetic. Second why would you be with someone who can't even stop drinking to take care of his child and most omportant you say he's picking up the child, so I assume he is also driving drunk while with his daughter? He sounds like a bad father never mind a bad boyfriend. And if his wife doesn't know about you and they're supossedly not together anymore then what's the problem? Why doesn't she know? How long have they been broken up? He's probably hiding something from you. Maybe the wife thinks they are going to fix things or maybe he doesn't want to cause drama?

Id leave him.he isn't even letting anone know your together. That's a redlight to me!

He sounds like a real loser! Do yourself a favor and stay the heck away from this guy! With all the men in the world, why are you chosing to be with a cheating, drunk married man!