Hello, I am new here just need some help. My ex girlfriend won't talk to me. We been together for 2 years. We broke up last year on September. Last year she posted something on my Facebook saying we been over and leave her alone. Now she talks to me more than last year, but just says stuff like get myself together and get a job.

She never answer my phone calls and text and messages on Facebook. If I say something on Facebook then she will say thing that I did wrong in the relationships and get mad at me for putting it on Facebook, but at the same time I say it to her she never talks back until she feels like it.

That bull**** to me I fight for her like she wants me to but when I do it like she does not want it.

My suggestion my dear leave her alone. Appparently she wants some kind of attention don't give it to her it is making you look like an a hole in the process.

I don't think she is interested in you. You should stop harassing her and move on. Stop torturing yourself for something that was done a LONG time ago. And yes, if you do not have your life together and don't have a job, you should definitely work on yourself, this obsession is nothing but a waste of your time.

The bull****t part is that you keep chasing some one that dumped you. Leave her alone and disappear from her life. Have no further contact with her what so ever in life.

Your way hasn't worked, mine will. Can't you see you are being played, AND disrespected? Where is your dignity my friend??

I don't see an issue. She's your ex. So move on. Stop trying to talk to her. Stop letting her play you.

Move on and find someone that wants to talk to you, that will take your calls, that will welcome your attention.

She's history. Look to the future.

Hey I know it's hard, cause how could you go from talking one day to complete cold turkey. I did the same thing for a couple of weeks and when I saw that he didn't want to talk to me, I left him alone. And that's what you have to do. You have to kind of tell yourself that you and her will never get back together just to keep your sanity to move on. If that helps. Cause you just never know if it's going to really happen. So why sit there, wait and wait and wait and not do nothing with your life? Make some changes in your life, work on something's that you want to do for yourself. If you sit in misery, neither she will find you attractive or the next woman. So work on yourself and occupy your time. Trust me, do some positive things, classes, gym, writing, counseling, whatever it's going to take for you to get better do it. Sleeping with other people, drinking alcohol and doing destructive things is not going to help you get over her. Those will only be temporary fixes.